Hey CW! Welcome aboard! I'll take a shot at your inquiries.
Whilst in-game, you can toggle the "X" at the top of the chat box to reduce the chat displayed to three lines of text.
Not sure if there is or may be a way to move the chat box. You might contact Vice thru regular channels to even see if this may be an option in what he's planning for the future.
There are a number of methods to check out frame/hull specs, as well as what other weapons/equipment items are available. The first is to be in-game, at a station, constructor, or carrier. Then check the F-3 inventory list for ships chandlery. Then enter the station/shipyard window. Once there, reference the options available. Ships' frame(s), Engine, Shield, Cargo, Fuel, and Wing set information may be gleaned at a toggle.
Secondly, get the Mercs Manual and/or the Hints/Tips/Tricks compendium and RTFM - Read The Furnished Material.
Check the Clans Thread in this forum, for Clan information. Most all of the Clans have a broad spectrum of membership, age non-respective and scattered across the face of Planet Earth. There are any number of Clans who would extend a welcome to you, should you so choose.
Good Luck and hope to see you out there sometime!
[Edited on 8-1-2012 by Busch]